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Cultural differences in Asia

Well, there are many things that are different that never fails to surprise us. The reverse is true for when they come to visit us. When Koreans, Japanese and Taiwanese visit our countries, they are astounded at some of the oddities that we have. Some of the everyday activities that they do are actually better than what we do, and of course the reverse is true. Don't try to change them. Just go with the flow:

"Don't try to bend the spoon... just bend yourself." The little boy on the Matrix

"Don't bring the mountain to Mohammad, bring Mohammad to the mountain."

Famous wise words aside, there are many things that we need to adjust to. Don't let it get you down, go for it with enthusiasm:

• Carry tissues, and accept free tissues in the street, as many public toilets don't supply toilet paper

• Tissues are 'cleaner' than handkerchiefs. Handkerchiefs are THE MOST disgusting thing you can use, especially when we make a loud noise, then place it in our pocket. That is their opinion, not mine

• When in Korean homes, don't block their plumbing by flushing your toilet paper. Often,  the pipes are too narrow for poo-poo and paper. Put the paper in the bin and they will deal with it

• If they offer you gifts, politely decline for the first few offers, then gracefully accept, but don't look overly eager in opening them... Best to open later (So you don't look greedy). It is best to show how grateful you are for the thought and consideration

• Respect your elders, which includes bowing (esp. in Korea and Japan)

• When you're with the locals, it's usually best to follow their lead, than embarrassing the hell out of them by you wanting to do something that isn't cool in their culture

• Try new food with enthusiasm

• Cook the food that you are used to at home. Having food that you are familiar with is very important, especially in Korea, and when you're sick. Also see Food.

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