Cure: Taiwan
If you
are living in Taiwan,
get out and meet some long-term resident foreigners. These guys and girls,
have ideally lived here for a minimum of two years, and have no plans of
returning home. They DO exist, especially in Taipei. These people are well
adjusted and have also been through what you are going through. They can
help you lighten up, see things as they really are, (life is a comedy
anyway, just you've changed the scenery), and they can help you get
perspective. They maybe able to suggest if you should change jobs, and to
which employer. Finally, learning even a little of the local language can
help a lot.
Learning a little
Chinese or Taiwanese can help a lot. It sounds obvious, and it helps you
become independent so you can get more of what you want. Learning even a little of the local language does wonders
in building your standing socially. It shows to them that you are willing to
learn about them and their country, and that you don't think that it is a
one-way affair: you merely imparting English and it's baggage upon them.
Travelling and seeing all the
sights gets your mind off of your problems. See the country while you can,
otherwise you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Get a camera and get
into recording the country through your eyes. Taiwan is a great place with
lots of images that are so different to your home country, so record them.
If you're
having problems teaching,
grit
your teeth, read up on how to teach better (see
these pages), and become a super star.
I've seen some very ordinary types of people become popular teachers, so
it's always possible if you give it a go.
There is such a concept as
'linguistic imperialism'. This is where the English speaking countries
attempt to dominate the world by enforcing our language upon them. I
personally don't believe this is the case. But I have had new teachers try
to enforce our culture, values and ideals on their students. Usually the
students DON'T appreciate this kind of imperialisation; especially in
Taiwan.
However, learning their language
does counter this notion of 'linguistic imperialisation', or as I see it,
'cultural imperialisation'.
Prozac, a popular
anti-depressant, is available in the country, and you can ask for it, saying
that it helps you control your migraines (and it actually does). Do consider
getting a prescription for it for a while, just to help you through.
It has
been said by many foreigners who have worked in other countries that Taiwan
is probably the best place for us to work. Just the right job needs to be
found.
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Note:
New legislation allows us to have 'two employers' on our visa. This allows
us to change between jobs without having to leave the country. I don't know
if it allows you to keep two jobs permanently, but that was never the
intention of the law, and this is a country where it is very unusual to have
two jobs anyway. The other great thing is your old employer won't find out
who the second visa sponsor is. For more info, go to
www.tealit.com